Trust is weak but important in a relationship, and deciding whom to trust requires one to observe carefully, exercise patience, and understand a few indicators to know a person is trustworthy.
- Consistent in Words and Actions: Their actions match their words. They back up their promises and commitments with action, no matter how insignificant. As you look through time, you’ll see for yourself their reliability.
- Honest: Trustworthy people value honesty, no matter how hard it may be to convey the truth. Such people can openly speak their minds concerning mistakes without the use of deception. They tell you what you need to know, not just what you want to hear.
- Respecting Boundaries: A trustworthy person honors your boundaries, views, and value systems. They won’t manipulate or pressure you but rather respect your independence.
- Availability and Caring: Trustworthy people have empathy and genuine caring. They listen without making judgments and prioritize understanding your perspective. They show their support in good and bad times.
- Nonjudgmental: A person who doesn’t use your weaknesses against you or your trust against you is of integrity. They handle confidential information with care.
- Consistent Over Time: This decision is based on repeat and reliable actions over time. Look for a pattern in someone’s treatment of you and others-especially during pressure or trying times.
No one is perfect, but an active effort to maintain trust-through honesty, respect, and accountability-is justification for bestowing trust to someone. However, there should always also be a flip side to the coin: an exchange of trust. Communicate your thoughts, establish clear expectations, and entrust to those relationships with caution. Allow them to grow organically while protecting your emotional well-being.